Dear Bloggers, What our PR contacts want us to know…..
This post is directed, as the title suggests, at bloggers…myself included. I remember when I first started receiving PR and working with brands, I had just uploaded my very braggy/proud (however you interpret it) PR ‘unboxing’, when my DM’s started lighting up. I’d go to my messages and I’d be inundated with requests for the PR details of the particular brand I had just unboxed.
I was a newbie blogger….big eyed and bushy tailed….star struck that anybody would want my contacts. For the most part I would pass on that information, but something didn’t sit well with me. I especially felt sick to my stomach when Megan Kelly one day pointed out on some blog chat that is was actually ILLEGAL to distribute somebody’s contact details without their permission. I went into panic mode! What if this blogger name dropped me? I’d be blacklisted for sure! This was early on in my ‘blogging career’ and as time went on, I tried to be more tactful when these requests came. With strangers, I’d happily pass on the information on how I obtained the details…because guys, seriously…some of ya’ll are just lazy.
How do I find contacts for brands I want to pitch to?
- If I’m interested in pitching something to a brand…when in doubt…GOOGLE! I Google the brand website and I check if there are any PR/Marketing team contact details.
- No information on the website? DM their social media team on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter and ASK for this information.
- Pick up the phone and call the brand and ask for their PR contact.
Where there’s a will…there’s a way! Your very last attempt would be to reach out to bloggers that you know work with that brand. It puts one in a bit of an uncomfortable situation. I’m not saying I won’t illegally hand that information out to a close online friend, but I make sure that if it came out that I gave that information out, it’s somebody that I would be proud to be associated with. Not somebody that purely wants to ‘bleg’.
To make this post a bit more interesting though….I reached out to my PR contacts and asked them what they thought of bloggers divulging their contact details…and wow, were the responses insightful to me! I think they will be to you too.
Response from PR for a skin care and makeup brand
As someone who gets numerous requests from new bloggers and ‘influencers’ each month, I personally do not think it is advisable for established bloggers to give out brand details to just anyone asking (aside from that, it’s also your hard work that went into establishing these relationships and creating your contact list, so why should everyone feel entitled to get that?). Many companies, such as ours, have a consumer address by which these types of requests can be directed, and of course it doesn’t take much for new bloggers to pick up the phone to ask to speak to a PR manager or for a generic email address for these sorts of requests. Unfortunately the reality is that these days every second person has a blog, thinks they are an ‘influencer’ and demands product and invitations to launches, and many are in the habit of harassment on email/phone when they have these details. This makes it a bit of a nightmare for PR managers and the like, and we have many more things to do than field threatening or begging emails on a daily basis.
When it comes to working with new bloggers, we usually spend several months evaluating their platforms and content before making a decision, and 99% of the time we will choose the individuals who have already, organically, been writing about and featuring our brand because of their love for it, rather than being sent free products. For us, huge followings are also not a factor and we favour real and authentic engagement per post over the number of fans, likes and comments with emojis.
Response from a PR for a leading book publisher
I think this is such an important post! We’ve had countless incidents where people have contacted us saying that they are a friend of a specific blogger that we have worked with. They hear that we ‘give away books for free if you post about it’.This is of course not the case. We send books to bloggers we feel have the kind of following that we would like to connect with. We also have a very limited number of books allocated for publicity. While we try to send books to all our bloggers, sometimes we just don’t have enough samples and have to choose only a small handful that fit the audience of the book to send to. I think instead of simply giving our details to a friend, a blogger can rather send us the contact details of their friend/fellow blogger and then we can contact them if they look like someone we’d like to work with. A recommendation from a blogger we respect and work with already can go a long way.So many bloggers work so hard to create important and insightful content using the products sent to them by PRs. It just seems unprofessional when others use their friends to try and get free stuff.
Response from a PR Agency
Although we appreciate introductions from new influencers, it can sometimes become quite challenging when influencers insist on following up for possible client collaborations. The majority of our clients are very specific about their campaign approach; it’s our job to select the correct talent/blogger/influencer for their specific need. We’ll reach out when the opportunity arises.
- Be authentic. If I want to work with Brand X…I go out and buy their products, review it and hope that they will eventually notice you. There are some brands that will NEVER work with me (or you), and you know…that’s okay. They have a certain aesthetic and there’s nothing we can do about it. I personally have tried to attract the attention of certain brands for a while with a genuine investment into their products, reviews, etc. I see who they choose to work with and I’m like…your loss. We see these things and preferences, we are not blind.
- Don’t ever email a brand/PR contact and say: Oh can I please get added to your press drop/distribution list? Also send me a dozen of those new face creams! I’m a huge ‘influencer’. No…just don’t. Please.
- Don’t make a pest of yourself. Following up on a pitch once is fine….after that, just have some self respect and move on. Your pitch may resonate with somebody else though, so don’t put all your eggs in one basket.
58 Comments
Vannah
I think it’s great that you reached out to brands for this post, it gives a unique perspective. Well written. Xxx
Simone
Thanks for reading sis. ♥️
Charlene
Brilliant post Simone!! Thank you for sharing… I’ve made notes!
Simone
I’m glad you found it useful Charlene!
Prettiful Blog
Such a good post Simone. I’ve been asked a million times for PR details, as well as how to get free products. It’s really frustrating, as I have built up these contacts over the last 5 years of blogging, and I am still not where I want to be.
Simone
I actually need to do another post….blogging isn’t about freebies! So many people think that’s what blogging is….but it isn’t. If that’s why you want to blog….then best you think up a new plan. Lol.
I agree….5yrs if work and people expect you to just divulge it in one DM?
Susana
This is such a unique post! thank you for approaching the brands you work with 🙂 so that we know how to approach brands better- because we genuinely want to work with them & not just because we want free things.
Simone
Thank you Susana♥️ Glad you found it helpful.
Dhanusha Dhoorgalu
Great post Simone. Luckily I do not get much requests anymore for PR details because I don’t feel comfortable sharing it. Very insightful and I would love to work with you on your next post.
Simone
That will be great! We’ll chat soon.
Aisha
Really enjoyed this post – thank you for your efforts in contacting PR brands for their feedback.
I’ve had people message me countless times asking for PR contacts and also asking me how they can get free things. It’s honestly the most annoying thing! I usually refer them to Rubybox or Beauty Bulletin because I feel rude dismissing them, even though I sometimes really want to.. :X
Simone
I don’t mind if somebody has a genuine interest in a brand…but when people are asking just because your PR looked like ‘lekker freebies’, that’s the type of person you don’t want to share with. Ya but problem is I’m also not rude and I try to be helpful…. so I always feel guilty if I don’t share.
Kerry
Such a great and insightful post Simone. This is going to help so many of us.
I am going to email you something that constantly bugs me xx
Simone
I got your email and I can relate to what you’ve said 100%!!! Can’t wait to get started on the post!
Refiloe
AHmazing post! It’s so important to share this kind of content amongst the blogger community. It’s also great to hear from PR contacts themselves. I’m really looking forward to reading the follow up post.
Simone
So glad you enjoyed it Refiloe! This post resonates with so many people…I’m so glad about that.
Zanele
Girl, thank for sharing this post.
I will refer people to it.
xx
Simone
Awesome! Glad if it can help. xxx
Tracy Dawson
Thank you for this very insightful post, Simone. Will definitely be sending you a few things for the next one. X
Simone
Ah I’m so glad everybody is keen to contribute to the next post! Will await your email♥️
mira naidu
Great post!
I have been in the situation so many times, being asked for PR contact details and I have to explain the very same thing that I cannot, it also bugs me a lot.
Most of the time this is not taken well.
Simone
I think if everybody knows what the ‘standard’ is…it gets us all out of these situations. I honestly don’t mind helping…. But I feel if I’ve managed to get them on my own….then most people can. Lol.
Siobhan Yeatman
You have just KILLED IT with this post!
I love it so much!
Well done my lovely. A fantastic angle that you tackled perfectly.
xxx
Simone
Thanks so much my friend!!! Killed it??? That’s exactly what I was hoping for! lol
Venean
Really relevant post – thanks so much for your efforts in bringing this information into perspective. xx
Simone
Thanks my friend! You know this was an idea 3 weeks ago….where I made our WhatsApp chat the reminder to myself to do this.😂😂😂 I’m glad I saw it through!
Camilla || Jane Wonder blog
GREAT post! I work in marketing and I have a blog, so I also get to see both sides face on. It’s really eye opening!!
Simone
I can imagine that you’ve got the best seat in the house for these things then! Glad you enjoyed the post ♥️
Natalie
I flippen love this post! I feel like in the blogging world, if we want to be taken seriously and actually make this a future career option, we have got to start taking it seriously. And posts like this just so eloquently highlight where some bloggers may be approaching this wrong. Amazing amazing post! Loved it! xxx
Simone
Ahhh Natalie thanks for the love and enthusiasm for the post! Really appreciate it!
Camilla || Jane Wonder blog
Another thing as a brand I ask of bloggers/influencers, please RSVP to an event? RSVP yes or no, don’t just ignore the mail. It’s so rude. I sent out press invites for a brand I work on and getting a blatant “ignore” made me reevaluate how I see those people…
Simone
Thanks for this. I think I always assumed if I can’t make it….they don’t need to know, but usually that’s when I get an invite to an event in CT and I live in PE and I know they have no intention of flying me there. Lol
Megan Kelly Botha
This is incredibly written! Well done on such a great and valuable post-Simone!
Simone
Thank you Megan! All these compliments are going to go to my head. Lol. ♥️
Carmen Barends
Thank you for the insightful post. It is always good to know both sides of the story so that you can relate more effectively.
Simone
Only a pleasure! All the responses make me so glad I did this post.
Rivania Pillay
This was a very insightful read. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and that of PR agencies. I would love to share my thoughts with you in your follow up post.
x Rivania | The Glam Unicorn
Simone
Please feel free to email me when you’re ready! I’ll be working on the follow up post in the next 2 weeks.
Kajal Maharaj
I’m a brand new blogger and this was very informative. Working hard to develop a following and get my voice heard! Thank you!
Simone
Persistence and consistency….You’ll get there! I’m glad it helped 🙂
Lizna Erkelens
Thank you for this post! So much that needed to be said was covered
Simone
Glad you enjoyed it Lizna!
Lisa Trollip
What a great post, insightful and informative. I would love to be involved in your follow up post!
Simone
Lisa feel free to drop me an email with your comments or how you’d like to get involved! Would love to hear from you.
Sarah
Great post Simone! Very informative 🌸
Simone
Thank you Sarah <3
Chanene Ablett
insightful and so needed. I absolutely loved it.
thank you
Donna Moodley
Wow my friend I ain’t no blogger but what an amazingly insightful read.
Big ups to you for approaching all themes brands.
Also realise howwwwwwwwww much you bloggers have to do.
Awesome post.
Juwayra
Very insightful post Simone!
NeetaRaga-D
Great post, would love to contribute to your upcoming posts on this topic. 💕
Maajidah
It was definitely an insightful post and to take both perspectives into account is brilliant. Allows bloggers to gain some perspective as to what they need to do. Can’t wait to read the follow up post!!!
Megan Keith
This was such a helpful post! Thanks for sharing!
Chantè Dèmi Tyler Ho Hip
This was such a good, informative read! Thanks again! xx
Melain
Such a great read for newbie bloggers. It can be a little confusing/daunting when starting out. Thank you for taking the time to write this up. ❤️
Emma M
Thank you so much for such an insightful post. As someone who is still battling with the whole review and paid review issue this is very helpful. I’ve wondered for a long time if all the reviews sitting in my laptop could simply go online or should I approach a brand asking for payment before posting. It has really been a struggle.
Then recently I just keep receiving press releases from PR companies. What bothers me about them is that they feel so cold and impersonal. They just address you as “hi”. And the content sent is mostly not even close to the topics shared on the blog. I feel that a PR company should at the very least address me by name and have a vague idea on what my blog is about. That way the content they send will benefit both me and them. This is my contribution.
Thanks again, you have really helped me.
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Marlene Louw
OMW! I don’t know how I would handle it if someone asked me for a PR contact.
Great post very insightful.
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